Stephana Johnson Because
I had CPS called on me and went through personal experience of CPS. I'm
going to share this. A very ticked and off neighbor (she poisoned our
cat - rat poison - led to it's death, smoked in front of our kitchen
door repeatedly because I asked her to please go further from our home
to smoke and finally threatened me - I called the police) The next day
CPS was at my door telling me "we have reason to believe the children in
this home are ...." I don't remember the rest only dropped the handful
of laundry I was on my way to put up and turned around to my husband and
two boys as they were playing. I was physically sick about it and
immediately called my sister in law who is CPS with AZ. I brought my
children to the door with my husband and said look at my children, see
them but you may not talk to them alone or interrogate them in any way
with or without me. I also did not invite her into my home - they have
to have a warrant. The CPS officer spent about a week doing walk by's
talking to my neighbors and I reported the previous incident with my
nasty neighbor who had been the one who called CPS and told them lies.
They said my boys were not in school and were at least 6 (at the time I
had a 2 and 4 year old). Once the CPS officer got all the facts CPS
dismissed the case. So, there are many things at play here. Many
factors. It's never a generality and we cannot be general here. While I
would absolutely not want to have my life and rights interfered with
there are absolutely people who are not capable of taking care of
another human being, let alone an infant or child. And thus we have CPS,
churches, other organizations who do what they feel is what they can do
to help. On both sides, there are many children in this world who are
abused and neglected - not just physically either. I know this is a very
touchy subject but what comes to mind is we see what we "believe" and
believe what we see - even when it's false. In my personal experience
most CPS are doing the best they can to help where they are needed. By
law, I believe this is still law, they have to respond to EVERY
allegation. How many times have we not stepped in or spoken up when we
witnessed a child being smacked, man handled or degraded though? OK,
well clearly I still have "baggage" from that experience. While I hated
going through it -I was anxiety ridden and felt inadequate and like a
bad mother for so long after - it opened my eyes even wider to our need
to be constantly alert and constantly willing to stand up, speak up and
fight (as Gandhi would) for our rights, what we value and what we
believe in for ourselves, our families, our children, our community.
Peace and Blessings.
http://www.texasmonthly.com/daily-post/cps-visited-austin-woman-whose-kids-were-playing-outside-unsupervised
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